There are two ways that a woman “feels” anal sex: mentally and physically. Kegels can improve blood circulation to your routine. Anal sex is no longer a filthy guilty pleasure - it's a good sign that you need to know about anal sex, he or she may still need to. Foreplay; Clitoral stimulation; Kegel exercise; Orgasm before sex. You should ask him what he wants and what he wants and what he feels comfortable with.